Yesterday I got all worked up watching Why Did I Get Married. I saw it back when it first came out and got worked up then too…Why do I do this to myself lol. The movie makes great points, gives lots of food for thought, and poses some good questions for not just us married folks— but singles as well.

The first and most obvious question being Why Did I Get Married? (for singles why do you want to get married or why are you getting married). It’s an important question that we sometimes forget the answer to or in some cases never knew the answer…. It would seem that our answer to that question would play a big part in how we treat our spouses and how we maintain our relationships.

Now what’s the real deal with the 80/20 rule?