The secrets to her mind have been unlocked and i’m going to share them with you. Knowing these will make you more attractive than every man she’s ever met.
1. She Wants to be Emotionally Swept Away, Not Just Impressed
You thought you brought your A game by bragging about all the cool things and how much money you make and shes says, “lets just be friends.” Confused? You must of hit everything on her list of what her future husband should have, but you missed out on the most important thing. She wants a man who affects her emotionally. Men see words and definitions. Women see emotion and empathy. To win her, you must get inside her head and open her feelings to who you are through detailed storytelling.
2. She Relies on You to Make Her Feel Comfortable
Women really dislike awkwardness and they avoid it at all cost. A woman evaluates how comfortable she is with you from the first moments together and she uses her comfort level as an indicator of how comfortable you are with yourself. Only when she is comfortable will she open up emotionally, mentally, and physically. Certain topics can make women uncomfortable: Dont discuss sex too quickly, do not discuss getting serious, marriage, kids, or anything else quickly. Any sort of trying too hard and social awkwardness also makes them uncomfortable.
3. Don’t Argue, Its Pointless. Often She Doesn’t Even Know Why Shes Feeling Emotional
Logic makes sense, but not in her mind. Women are passionate and their emotions make no sense sometimes. She wants reassurance from you more than anything. Sit with her, let her know she is not alone and that you will keep her safe.
4. She Is Just As (Or Even More) Sexual Than You Are. Its Just Compartmentalized
Yes guys, the good news: Women love sex. But there is one key difference between women and men when it comes to that and its not what you think. Women are a bit more sexually and emotionally complex than we are and as such, their sexuality is experienced differently. It doesnt take as much to stimulate men. Women, on the other hand, compartmentalize their sexual thinking. She keeps it in one particular place in her mind which is locked away until the right time or the right key comes along. If you bear the key that unlocks that place, the floodgates open and youre the one with whom she shares her most intimate thoughts, feelings, and desires.
5. She Expects You to Respect Her and You Better Respect Yourself First
This becomes more true when she shares her entire self with you. Trust and respect are essential. Never try to control her. Respect her by following through with promises. When she can rely on you, you know there is special bond.
