The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee

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The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee

A professor stood before his child development class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents the mind of each student as they enter your classroom on the first day of school. The golf balls are the important things — God, family, friends, health, home, and the children’s favorite passions — and if everything else was lost and only they remained, their life would still be full.

The pebbles represent the knowledge they have acquired up until now. Unfortunately, each child will have a different amount of pebbles.

The sand is your responsibility! It is your job to fill their minds as tight as you possibly can in the short time that you have them. At the end of each year, the sand comes together as pebbles, ready to be sent off to the next teacher.

The professor paused…

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled and said, “I’m glad you asked.”

He replied, “The coffee is CARE and LOVE.”

~Author Marcey Gaitan~

37 Responses to “The Mayonnaise Jar and 2 Cups of Coffee”

  1. That is a good story. I’m going to have to copy that.

  2. Very cool, I have heard something similar before. Kids can really grasp analogies also.

  3. Avocat says:

    Great share !!Thanks !!
    keep them coming !!

  4. That a nice one. I guess we all like to learn this way, its much easier to grasp what person has to say. I wish I had professors like this one teaching.

  5. herpes says:

    Thats a really thought provoking story. Thanks for sharing Marenda. Keep these kind of post coming! =)

  6. Awesome story : ]

    Thanks for sharing it!

  7. space code says:

    I heard a different version of this story. It ended up with two cans of beer and the tagline was, “no matter how hectic life can be, there is still time for a couple of beers”

  8. One of the best and inspiring stories! Thanks for sharing this nice story. :)

  9. poker says:

    Hi. I love this story.

    Its very inspiring and a great way to teach kids.

  10. Thanks for your good informations..Keep it up. It;s really a good work..

  11. zo hai says:

    Aww!! Such a heartwarming story =) I wonder if it’s a real story itself. Kudos whoever who is able to thought this up.

  12. zawadi says:

    Very nice post. Thanks for that. My step mom is a teacher, she retired and then went back to teaching. Not many people will have that much patients and love for kids. Thanks for the post.

  13. Great story Marenda!

  14. I guess there’s all alike to learn this way, its much easier to grasp what person has to say. I wish I had professors like this one teaching. It would really be great.

  15. Marc Klein says:

    I wish I had professors like this one teaching.Not many people will have that much patients and love for kids.Thanks for sharing this nice story

  16. Thanks for sharing the story. Indeed, nowadays it’s hard to attract children ateention most of the time. The professors had use his way of teaching to teach the kids. A very heartwarming story. Thumb up!

  17. Every time I read or hear this story, it fills me with so many different thoughts. I remember that when I think something is done, or I have done all I can, there is always a little bit more I can do.

    I like this version with the coffee, and I like that you are finally surrounding everything in the story with care and love!

  18. MonaVie says:

    I’ve heard this before, but I like this one better (the other one used a glass of beer). This one has a more profound meaning. I think this is a lesson that all teachers should use because of the visual aid. It’s something I’d never forget, that’s for sure!

  19. Very meaningful story…I couldn’t agree more that the ball golf represent God, family, friends. Those are the most important in our life.

    “And the coffee is CARE and LOVE”… It can fill every empty place in our life!

  20. Excellent parable! Thank you!

  21. That is a very nice story,
    Full of meaning !!

  22. This is so cool. Thanks

  23. large tent says:

    thanks for giving me fact, it such a good blog, always keep in touch

  24. Acai Berry says:

    Great story, I'll have to read it to my kids.

  25. Great! Nice story. Thanks.

  26. acai berry says:

    great – such a great source of information

  27. Frever t. says:

    Commenting usually isnt my thing, but ive spent an hour on the site, so thanks for the info

  28. arun prasad says:

    Very cool, I have heard something similar before

  29. I love creative teachers! Thanks!

  30. hospedagem says:

    Very cool, I have heard something similar before. Kids can really grasp analogies also.

  31. I guess we all like to learn this way, its much easier to grasp what person has to say. I wish I had professors like this one teaching.

  32. That is a good story. really thought provoking story. Thanks for sharing

  33. Very nice story with a lot of lesson to learn. Thank you for sharing this.

  34. wow, thanks! never heard this one before.. one good story to tell.. favorite one is "and if everything else was lost and only they remained, their life would still be full…"

  35. That's a great story..I totally impressed with this post.Actually I have been searching for this type of posts.Thanks a lot for sharing.Keep up the good works.

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