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Romantic Ideas: How to Make Every Day Valentine’s Day

By Marenda ~ February 7th, 2008 @ 11:20 am

With Valentine’s Day around the corner this mega list of romantic ideas will get you lovin’ all year!

Love Potions/Aphrodisiacs:

StrawberriesnchampagneGinseng *Plantain

*English Walnut

Iris Root *Licorice

Fenugreek *Oysters

Caviar *Avocados

Salmon *Jasmine

Fennel *Vanilla

Nutmeg *Pineapples

Strawberries *Saffron

Savory *Saw Palmetto

Wine *Champagne

Keep The Fire Burning Year Round:

  1. Start each day with a kiss and end each day with a hug.
  2. Get dressed up and go on a date once a week.
  3. Be sensitive to your partners sexual desires.
  4. Give back rubs and massages.
  5. Be kind.
  6. Be gentle.
  7. Be positive.
  8. Be polite and respectful.
  9. Laugh together.
  10. Compliment your partner twice a day.
  11. Smile at your partner often.
  12. Look your best for your partner.
  13. Call just to say I love you.
  14. Say I love you frequently.
  15. Talk about your love.
  16. Watch sunsets together.
  17. Cuddle.
  18. Listen.
  19. Encourage.
  20. Pray for your partner daily.
  21. Know your partner’s needs.
  22. Do what your partner wants before they even ask.
  23. Accept differences.
  24. Admit when you are wrong.
  25. Apologize.
  26. Send flowers and cards just because.
  27. Wink at each other.
  28. Choose a song thats yours (dance to it when ever you hear it)
  29. Welcome each other home.
  30. Hold Hands.

Things To Say That Will Make His Day:

  1. I missed you today.
  2. I couldn’t get you off my mind all day.
  3. You are so sexy.
  4. I love you.
  5. You make me feel good.
  6. You look good today.
  7. What would you like?
  8. Thank you.
  9. I’m sorry (apologize if you were wrong about something)
  10. What can I do for you?

The Way To A Man’s Heart Is His Stomach:

Cook more and cook often. Nothing turns a man on like a home cooked meal. Break out the candles, romantic music (make a special cd of songs that express your love), and put on your Sexiest Outfit (look your best make it difficult for him to take his eyes off you). Go above and beyond the call of duty. Set the scene and make dinner an experience. Pull out those pretty dishes and that good silverware you never use. This is a special occassion!

2 steaks
2 lobster tails
Steamed Vegetables and Pasta in Olive Oil and Garlic
Dinner Rolls
Fresh Strawberries with stems
Chocolate dipping sauce
Wine/Champagne

Make Him Feel Special Every Day:

  • Admire him for his strength and significance.
  • Pack him a lunch with his favorite foods (include a love note).
  • Keep his favorite snacks on hand.
  • Watch his favorite sporting events with him.
  • Bake him cookies.
  • Compliment him in front of people.
  • Look your best.
  • Stick to your budget.
  • Keep the house clean and clutter free.
  • Have surprise lingerie fashion shows.
  • Be spontaneous.
  • Take interest in his work and hobbies.
  • Surprise him with gifts and treats on ordinary days.

Romantic Tips That Will Melt Her Heart:

  • Buy a packet of glow in the dark stars and stick the stars on the ceiling above your bed to spell out a message such as “I Love You” When the lights are out, your message will be revealed!
  • Buy the domain name of your partner’s name if it is available for example www.HerNameHere.com. Create a web page containing a romantic poem and a picture of a rose. When your partner is surfing the web, casually ask whether she has ever checked to see whether her domain name is taken. Let her type it in to discover her page.
  • Have flowers delivered to your partner’s workplace. She will not only enjoy the flowers but will also receive comments and attention from her office mates which will add to her enjoyment.
  • Write a note saying “I thought of you today, and it made me smile.” Leave the note somewhere where your partner is sure to find it.
  • If your partner has voice mail at work or on her mobile, leave a message saying “Just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking of you.” She will appreciate this anytime but especially when she is going through a rough period.
  • Go for a walk on the beach. Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner as you watch the sun go down.
  • Leave a long stem rose where your partner will find it with a note on it saying:
    “Thank you for coming into my life.”
  • Give your partner a magic gift box. Every month, place a new small gift in the box for her to discover.
  • Have a really big pillow fight. Set up for it by buying two pillows that are filled with feathers. Put holes in the pillows so the feathers will start to fly and then attack your partner when you feel the time is right.
  • Buy your partner a gold fish in a bowl and give it to her with a card saying, “Of all the fish in the sea, you’re the fish for me!”

Buy some rose petals and place them behind the sun visor on the passenger side of your car. Take a post it note and write, “I Love You” on it and stick it to the back of the sun visor. As you are driving to a romantic destination, look at your partner and tell her she has a mark on her cheek. She will pull down the sun visor to use the mirror and be showered in rose petals and see your note.

Buy a small decorated cardboard box, a sheet of colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank card.
Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the massage oil in the box and write the following message on the card:
I know a great Masseur. For an appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

When your spouse has had a really long hard day, run a hot bath for her. Pour some fragrant bath oil into the tub and gently bathe her from head to toe. Carry her into the bedroom. Gently towel her dry and tuck her into a freshly made bed with a kiss on the forehead.

Invite your partner to go for a walk. Get a back pack and pack the following items: A picnic blanket, a selection of fruit in small containers eg. strawberries, grapes, watermelon and kiwi fruit. Some cheese and crackers. Some sandwiches. A small tin of caviar. A half bottle of champagne and two plastic champagne glasses. If your partner asks what’s in the backpack, just say a jacket and some lunch. When you find a romantic spot, ask if she would like to stop for a bite to eat. Open your pack and remove the items one by one to set up your picnic. The last item you remove should be the glasses and champagne.

Contact your partner’s family and ask if there was anything she always wanted when she was a little girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only appreciate the gift but also the fact that you were thoughtful enough to find out what she always wanted.

When you and your partner are in a shopping center or airport, stop at one of those booths that allow you to take an instant photo and print them out as stickers. Choose a romantic background and kiss your partner while the photo is being taken.

When you and your partner are having an anniversary, buy two champagne glasses and get them engraved with your names and the date. Go to the restaurant where you have made your reservations and request that when you and your partner arrive that your champagne be served in your special glasses. This will be a great surprise for your partner and a wonderful keepsake for you both.

On a special occasion such as your partner’s birthday, buy twenty-four red roses. Arrange to meet her at a specific spot in a shopping mall before going out for dinner. Get to the shopping mall early and position yourself around the corner from your meeting spot. Ask a guy who is walking by whether he would mind helping you out. Give him a rose, point out your partner and ask him to walk up to her and say, “Happy Birthday Meagan” and give her the rose and then walk away. Repeat this with eleven other guys. Choose guys who are not too good looking and choose guys of different ages. A nice touch is to have the last rose delivered by a small child who could even by accompanied by his parents. After the first twelve flowers have been delivered, approach your partner with the twelve remaining roses.

Always listen for things that your partner reminisces about and jot them down somewhere. For example, perhaps she talks about the ice cream that she had from a particular shop when she was a little girl. When a special occasion comes along, check your list of things that your partner talks about and try to recreate one of them, for example, visit the shop and buy a tub of ice cream making sure that the name of the shop is on the container.

Buy a tree with your partner and plant it in a special spot. Each year on your anniversary, have a glass of champagne next to your tree and talk about how your love and the tree have grown.

  • As a special gift, name a Star after your partner. A number of astronomical agencies allow individuals to name stars and you receive formal documentation identifying the star that you have named.
  • Serve your partner breakfast in bed.
  • When your partner is taking a shower or bath, take her towel and place it in the dryer to make it really warm and then wrap her up in it when she is done.
  • When your partner is sick at home, take a day off to look after her. Rent some videos, make her some soup, wrap her up in a blanket and just be with her.
  • Share your food with your partner. When you go out for a meal, hold a forkful up to her mouth and say, “You’ve got to try this.” Sharing your food and even feeding each other is a great way to become closer as a couple.
  • If you can afford it, rent a sports car for a weekend. Pick up your partner and give her a long white cashmere scarf to wear with her sunglasses. Go for a drive along the coast with the top down.

Fill the trunk of your car with helium balloons. Drive to a romantic spot in the country to go for a walk. The ideal spot is somewhere up high with a clear view of the surrounding countryside. Get out of the car and act as though you are about to set off for your walk. Make sure your partner is closer to the car than you and then throw her the keys and ask if she can get your jacket from the trunk while you tie your shoelace. When she opens the boot the balloons will be released. Place a sign saying, “I Love You” on the inside of the trunk so that it will be revealed when the trunk opens.

Pick your partner up for a date and blindfold her before driving to a special destination. Try to make the destination something really unexpected like a table set up at the top of a cliff or a dinner on a boat or old-fashioned ship. It needs to be something that will have an impact when she removes the blindfold.

The day before your partner’s birthday buy some helium balloons, streamers and flowers and hide them in a closet.
When your partner has fallen asleep, string the streamers around the room and bring out the balloons and flowers. Place them around the bed so that your partner wakes up to a real birthday surprise.

500 Lovemaking Tips ­ Book ReviewOne of the biggest challenges couples in long-term relationships face is trying to keep their lovemaking red, hot and steamy. Early on in a relationship, the passion and newness of your lovemaking is always unforgettable; but, as that initial magic fades, it becomes harder to make things exciting again.So is “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by acclaimed author Michael Webb the right book to bring back the fire? Here’s my take on it.The book begins with a general foundation and understanding on lovemaking, briefly discussing topics like bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance for lovemaking, and interesting truths about Kama Sutra. It also contains a lubrication guide and 16 fully illustrated lovemaking positions in the back of the book. These are all nice touches, but the main attraction and bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.

I have to say, I really LOVE that you can open the book, pick a page and have between 8 ­ 10 easy-to-read tips ready to inspire or use right away. No need to read through dozens of long-winded paragraphs. Everything is formatted neatly and is very easy on the eyes. This is a big plus when you’re just about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you want some ideas.

So, what about the actual tips themselves?

This book is a treasure chest of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. They range from oral sex tips for both men and women, to games you can play to make foreplay more fun (although I would have loved to see more games). It also has tips to make intercourse feel better and unique, ways to surprise your partner like “coming out of the shower with just a towel and playing with your wife,” and even some cool places to make love that most people would never have thought of. While I didn’t find all the tips exciting (which was expected), I found more than enough that appealed to me.

The tips are all mixed together, which can get a little overwhelming. I recommend you skim through the book a few times rather than trying to read the whole thing in one sitting.

This book also lives up to its promise of not containing any raunchy, degrading, immoral or perverted ideas that so many lovemaking books seem to have.

In conclusion, while not all the tips in the book amazed me and I would have been nice to see some more ‘games’, it’s still THE most complete book of tips and ideas on improving lovemaking I’ve ever read. Nothing else comes close. All in all, I found it very enjoyable to read and use :) So if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again or even if you just want some tips for more pleasure, then I highly recommend this book for you.

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11 Responses to Romantic Ideas: How to Make Every Day Valentine’s Day

  1. Seventies Hairstyle

    Seems like a lot of things have to be done. Is there any easy way out?

  2. Cynthia

    Love is in the air. Your tips will help keep it there, all year long!

  3. Living Life Abundantly

    :) I hope so :)

  4. Jason Pearson

    Thanks for posting all these tips. Some I have heard before, but are worth hearing again. Relationships require work, and you have given some really practical things to try. Keep up the good work. I have enjoyed reading your blog.

  5. Vince

    i would say just keep doing what you’re doing for each other. and when you learn something new about what you both love, explore that together and you can keep yourselves interested. And the best way to keep a long and happy relationships is to be in tuned with each other’s everything. but always have time for yourself and let her have time to herself…. :) because when you see each other again, you have the chance to miss her and give her a beautiful long kiss! :)

  6. run your car on water

    Women dream of traveling and like luxury hotels. She prefer dinner in a luxury hotel than to stay at home. She like long drives with you.Women are crazy about vacations on hills, hiking, and beach. Please her arrange a vacation in places like Switzerland or anywhere she like.This is very good ideas. It’s very important to remind your partner that she is on your mind and that you love her. Anything that does that is a plus.

  7. Gain Weight Fast

    And here are few things u should never ever say to your women:

    Your friend looks very beautiful on more than two occasions
    I’m terrified when you are driving
    I don’t understand what u say (while u always did before she even said)
    I play golf to spend some time away from u

    thanks.

  8. Pregnancy Blog

    I really enjoyed reading this! Thank you for sharing your thoughts into this matter. I’m forwarding this URL to my 2 brothers who would love to read this. Cheers

  9. Mr Article

    Aww thank you :) they are sweet. I will have to try some out next year… If i have that special somebody :(

  10. Dubai

    I like this :D ! thanks :D

  11. Jaison Williams

    Elect to make traditional Valentine’s dishes together like lobster, oysters, fillet mignon and chocolate dipped strawberries for dessert.

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