Comments on: A Good Woman Hard to Find?

By: Kent

Kent — Tue, 08 Apr 2008 14:33:30 +0000

I believe allot of woman are full of Sh*** and completely delusional and unrealistic with their expectation when it comes to relationships and men. Woman want all of the benefits of equality but none of the responsibility. Look If I bust my ass at work all day the last thing I’m going to want to do is cook and clean when I come home if my wife, girlfriend (water ever ) is of the “stay at home” variety, (I go out make the money, she stays home cooks and cleans period) This whole idea that men work 8+ hours then he is expected to come home help her with the house chores is outrageous!, First lets set the record straight shall we? Most men don’t just put in 8 hour days most men put in 80 hour work weeks most men are out in the field or chained to a desk to earn a living and they typically work till they die, (most men never make it to retirement!) Men bust their asses and bring home ” the bacon” but when we ask our “partners” to “fry it up in a pan” we are some how assholes?…… I’m sick and tired of listening to woman bitch and complain about how much work it is to keep a house in order or to manage their bratty offspring. Most men because of their work schedule don’t get to spend nearly the amount of time they would like with their kids, and I think that is very sad. The majority of his time is spent making money while she stays home and experiences the joys of motherhood. This ” arrangement” if you really critically think about it actually is not fair to men, and a lot of men are beginning to take note of this imbalance and resenting it.

By: Cufflinks

Cufflinks — Sat, 29 Dec 2007 19:59:17 +0000

Its teamwork for sure. But you need to enjoy the teamwork for it to work out! I do and have always had success in relationships with people around me.

By: Allan Cockerill

Allan Cockerill — Sat, 29 Dec 2007 00:23:40 +0000

I really enjoyed this post!

My parents were married for 60 years, and it was always a joint effort - they both worked, they both cooked, cleaned and did everything together!

My wife and I have been married 21 years this month, and it’s a joint effort. We both work, we both cook, clean and do everything together…

Proverbs 31 was a good way to round off the post. I have always maintained that to find the Prov 31 woman, a man has to be the Prov 31 man.

To do that, he needs to take heed to the message ‘male by birth, man by choice…’

Have a great new year!

By: Irving real estate

Irving real estate — Thu, 27 Dec 2007 23:09:08 +0000

Good women are not hard to find, just hard to keep if you dont act right. lol

By: pine furniture

pine furniture — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 14:19:44 +0000

Great article to read about…In my opinion men and women should follow some system to maintain each others relationship

By: free satellite software

free satellite software — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 13:57:10 +0000

Divorces are caused by selfish people. All you have to do is treat each other unselfishly, and solve problems. Once you have that, dare to archive more, and take some risks

By: Jeremy Hobbs

Jeremy Hobbs — Mon, 24 Dec 2007 00:42:23 +0000

It has to come down to the individual couple. Some woman may be fine with doing domestic work by themselves without help; I’ve seem women that would become angry if you ‘got in their way’ (a.k.a. tried to help).

Others would rather split the responsibilities more evenly. In the modern world it seems, like everything else, there is no true right or wrong.

By: Paranormal Enthusiast

Paranormal Enthusiast — Sun, 23 Dec 2007 23:54:15 +0000

Those times are long gone. Most women are looking for a man with money and not looking to do anything in there life but buy clothes and materials. A lot of men are the same way too! This society is so materialistic now it makes me sick!

By: Promotional Dude

Promotional Dude — Sat, 22 Dec 2007 18:27:25 +0000

Wow, good topic and great conversation.
This all started with the TV commercial, I really believe that TV is raising our children these days in a lot of households, this leads to a very twisted set of values and impressions controlled by marketers and profit, not family and community motivated people.

In my life I have found an awesome woman, we both run businesses. We hired a house keeper for 20 hours a week, and it has worked so well for our family. My wife should not be spending her time on nickel jobs when she can be out making dollars, and achieving her dreams with her business (Mary Kay). You simply have to think bigger and take some risks to live abundantly.

Also, I treat my wife the way I want to be treated, and it’s reciprocated.

Divorces are caused by selfish people. All you have to do is treat each other unselfishly, and solve problems. Once you have that, dare to archive more, and take some risks. Do that + Invite god into your family, and you will live abundantly.
My two cents, thx for the great blog!

By: dele

dele — Wed, 05 Dec 2007 19:56:56 +0000

prov. 31. great conclusion, settles the argument for me. a woman like that would definitely find the christ like love in a man…..and more. like the bible says ‘love your wife like christ loves the church and gave himself for her’…i guess its easier to give oneself for her, if she’s a true wife like that described in prov 31.