5 years ago I had a conversation with a friend about how older generations seem reluctant to pass on information. In retrospect, I believe that its not so much that older generations are reluctant to share… it seems that know it all younger generations are unwillingly to tap into the reservoirs of wisdom available to them.

While we may have access to information at the click of a mouse…information does not equal wisdom or experience. My generation has a lot to learn and can gain so much if we’d take the time to LISTEN and take heed to wise words that come from elders and oral traditions not email forwards.
My dad said something I’ll never forget before he died. He told me to learn everything that I can. Previous to him telling me that he had also instructed me to listen to my grandmother (my moms mother). I have always been close to my grandmother, so I thought him saying that was weird, but he was talking about listening and learning from the wisdom, knowledge, and understanding that is pass down from generation to generation.

My grandmother says “Use your head for more than just a hat rack.” I talk to my grandmother every day and I always learn something new and useful. I realize that not everyone has grandparents but I’m sure there is an aunt, uncle, cousin, church member, or someone older and wiser in your circle. Listen and Learn.

One more thing…get the full scoop…what I mean is get the good, the bad, and the ugly. Learn about the failures, hardships, and obstacles too not just the good times… We must take the time to learn everything we can.

A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots. -Marcus Garvey

In every conceivable manner, the family is link to our past, bridge to our future. -Alex Haley